Stress is not 100% bad. In fact, stress can boost productivity. In the old days stress helped us out-run predators or focus better on the task at hand so that we could, well, survive. Today, the stress of an impending move can help motivate us to take clothes to a donation drop-off and pack-up our belongings well before the move-date. We may even experience stress from experiences we label “good”: the excitement of a job promotion, trip, or new relationship will likely put a bit of stress on us. Stress becomes a problem when we max out and switch from good stress to distress. This tipping point is different for each of us.
The shift from good stress to distress will express itself differently from person to person. If we’re paying attention, we’ll notice warning signs in the lead up to stress overload or overwhelm. The shift itself and the warning signs are often subtle: an increase in fatigue, chapped lips, racing heart, tummy troubles, irritability. Things we may not even notice as signs of stress. Additionally, what may be stressful to you may not be to someone else and vice versa. But what tends to be distressing to everyone, and definitely plays a role in the shift from good stress to distress, is feeling out of control. A sense of having little to no control is distressing to everyone.
Establishing a routine that’s easy enough to follow at home, at work, or on vacation can help reduce stress in two ways.
- It sets up a reliable framework from which we can detect the signs that stress is shifting from something good to something not so good.
- It gives us control over at least part of the day. So when things start to feel hectic and out of your hands, we can be certain that come 5 o’clock we’ll be playing basketball, heading out for a walk, or sipping iced tea just like every other day.
What your schedule looks like can be completely up to you, but we recommend including these stress reducing activities into your every day as much as you can.
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